Dark Blessings!
In Michigan, we have come to the time for us to recognize that the
time of Eldering is upon us in order to ensure the next generations of
magickians, witches, Wiccans, occultists, Pagans, etc, are properly
prepared and guided. The sixties have come and gone, and the icons have
begun to age and pass down their torches to those who are coming after
them. This is a vital time, because every generation is a new
challenge, a new opportunity, a new time to either save the values and
foundations of belief of our Traditions, or see them destroyed,
dissembled, and degraded to the lowest forms. This is why Eldering is
so important.
What is Eldering?
The Eldering Institute defines it as
"... living life as a contribution.
When we share the
best of who we are, we have purposeful conversations that matter. We are
generous with our time and energy. We listen non-judgmentally and give
people our full attention. Rather than focusing on contributing
knowledge or information (which quickly becomes obsolete or redundant),
we share our wisdom—our insights and perspectives, our ‘way of being’ in
the world—in a way that brings out the best in others and helps them
live life more successfully on their own terms"
This is what those who have come before, gone through the trials and
rites, and lived the life have to offer us. Too often their insight is
seen as censure, and experienced observations are seen as attacks when
they are not. Right now in the Land of the Fresh Water Seas, the Elders
are quietly leaving us to find our own ways. But not in the best way
in many times.
There is a perceivable wave of despair shadowing the land. Those
with knowledge to share are being ignored, pushed aside, and sometimes
even purposefully subjected to character attacks by those who would
replace them. It is one thing to find your place in the sun. It is
another to be shone upon by the light from the flames of the pyre upon
which you sacrifice your rival.
The need to grow and change is ever present. However, to grow
implies a starting point. If one does not acknowledge where the
beginnings are, what the basis of beliefs were founded upon, good and
bad, then how does the community rise as a whole. How do you cut off
the roots and expect the tree to stand?
Money has been a real motivator the world over, and throughout the
ages. That being said, it is insinuating itself among the leadership
that is taking the helm of the ship. Instead of it being a means to and
end, the would be Now Generation of Michigan Magick is being slowly
affected by false elders, those described by Quill Mastercraft in "
The Travail of Pagan Elders" as ones who
"set a goal to become a Pagan elder, thinking they can
amass money, fame or power in such a position. They promote themselves
as experts, usually on a specific tradition or subject matter, and
either offer themselves as public speakers or preachers, hold classes
for a fee, write articles or books. In today's society, where so many
people gullibly (sic) believe what they see and hear - often ignoring
their intuition or better judgement - such self-proclaimed elders draw
the naive to them, and proceed to mislead, confuse and sometimes totally
disillusion them about the true meaning of their Pagan faith"
This does not mean that the earning of money for time and work is
wrong or to be looked down upon. However, there is more to being an
elder than gathering followers willing to finance you. As Patti
Wigington wrote in "
Elders - What Is a Pagan Elder?",
"Often, someone who has been involved in the Pagan
community for a long time, and has shown that they have a significant
amount of knowledge and wisdom to share, can be considered an Elder.
People who are teachers, counselors, authors, and other leaders can all
be designated as Elders, if others feel they have earned it"
Thus, the author can sell the books, the teacher can charge for
classes, the festival organizer can charge event admission, etc, without
losing their spirituality in the process. The key is that they have
earned the title through doing the work and it will show in everything
they do, not in the grand way they turn a phrase when they self proclaim
their status.
Lineages, Traditions, Paths, Books, all of these are valid things,
but without the heart, blood, and Souls of those who have established
them, practiced them, and learned from them, they mean nothing. If you
have never heard the voice of your Gods, how can you lead others to that
deity? If you have never walked the Way, then how do you find it?
Elders are there as guides and pools of knowledge and experience that
are here if people will use them and allow them to share it. When you
walk into the local store and see that woman behind the counter with the
serene face, the grey streak, the energy pouring off of her, and you
decide that you know it all and do not have anything to gain, you have
missed the boat.
People give a lot of lip service to honoring the ancestors. But why
wait until they are the Mighty and Beloved Dead before you recognize
their worth? What good is sitting vigil years later, when the feast is
before your eyes now? Sit at the table and be served.
When you go to the local events and the gentleman sagely watching it
all and speaking little sometimes, or who is sometimes very vocal about
things that mean a lot to him, pay attention. There is the lesson. You
may not agree, but you have had the blessing to hear and the chance to
process what you have heard from those who have sailed those waters
before you and can say, yes, there there be dragons.
One more thing to remember when we do wrongly by our Elders was summed up best by local
Elder L.J. Rose, local owner of
Lotions Potions Notions is that
"there is no way that they will ever get an elder to come back to serve after the way they have been treated"
Words to heed.
Blessed Be.
Republished from http://www.examiner.com/article/eldering-a-new-generation-of-pagans-michigan
Special Regards to Ki'a Dragon